While lingerie often comes to mind as the go-to choice for boudoir photography, it’s not a requirement. Boudoir isn’t confined to lace or corsets, and what you wear can be as unique and personal as you are. It doesn’t have to involve lingerie at all.

If the idea of traditional lingerie makes you feel uneasy or if you’re looking for something different that still makes you feel empowered, sexy, and confident, there are plenty of alternative outfit ideas to consider. Below are some creative, stylish, and comfortable options that are perfect for a boudoir session—no lingerie required!

Here’s some ideas what else you can wear:

 Off-the-shoulder sweaters or tops: Cozy and Sexy

One of the best alternatives to lingerie for a boudoir session is a cozy, oversized sweater or cardigan. This option exudes a relaxed, intimate vibe, combining comfort with subtle sexiness.

Pair an off-the-shoulder sweater with knee-high socks or thigh-high stockings for a soft and sensual look. The draped, oversized style allows for playful posing, and the contrast between cozy and sultry creates a balanced aesthetic that’s effortlessly sexy.

A Favorite Dress or Gown: Glamour Meets Confidence

Who says boudoir has to be casual? If you feel most confident in something more glamorous, consider wearing a favorite dress or evening gown. Whether it’s a slinky slip dress, a silky evening gown, or a cocktail dress that hugs your curves, this look can add a high-fashion element to your boudoir shoot.

Button-Down Shirts: Effortlessly Chic

A classic, oversized button-down shirt—either your own or your partner’s—can create a stunning look for a boudoir shoot. This timeless piece radiates an “effortless” vibe while still being sexy and sophisticated. You can wear the shirt alone, partially unbuttoned, or pair it with high-waisted panties for an easygoing yet intimate style.

Sheer or Lace Tops: Delicate and Alluring

Sheer or lace tops are fantastic alternatives that can easily be paired with panties, bras, or camisoles to create a delicate and alluring ensemble. These pieces add a touch of femininity and elegance to your boudoir shoot, allowing you to embrace your sensuality while feeling comfortable and confident.

Leather Jacket or Top: Bold and Edgy

For those looking to inject a bit of attitude into their boudoir session, a leather jacket or top can be a bold and edgy choice. This striking addition creates a unique and empowering look, allowing you to showcase your strength and individuality in a stunning way. Whether worn over a simple outfit or styled as the main feature, a leather piece can elevate your boudoir photography experience.

Bodysuit with a Sheer Overlay: Sophisticated and Seductive

Layering a sheer or lace overlay on top of a bodysuit can create a sophisticated and seductive style. This combination adds an element of mystery to your photos, allowing you to embrace your sensual side while maintaining a chic appearance.

Tulle Dresses or Skirts: Whimsical and Romantic

A tulle skirt can add a touch of whimsy and romance to your boudoir shoot. Pair it with a bralette or crop top for a playful yet elegant look that beautifully captures your feminine essence and creates a dreamy atmosphere in your images.

Sports Jerseys: Fun and Personal

If you or your partner are sports fans, wearing a jersey from a favorite team can add a unique and personal touch to your boudoir session. This fun option not only showcases your interests but also brings an element of playfulness and intimacy to your photos.

Jeans and a Simple Tank Top: Casual and Sexy

For a relaxed, “girl-next-door” vibe, you can’t go wrong with a simple tank top and your favorite pair of jeans. The combination of tight jeans and a form-fitting top can show off your curves while maintaining a casual, comfortable style.

Silk Robes: Luxurious and Elegant

A silk or satin robe is a fantastic choice if you’re looking for something that feels luxurious without being overly revealing. Robes can be worn on their own, cinched at the waist, or paired with shorts or a bralette for added coverage.

Bodysuits (But Not Lingerie!)

Bodysuits can be an excellent non-lingerie option for boudoir. While some bodysuits are made from lace and mesh, you can find others in different materials like cotton or satin for a more casual or elegant feel.

Athletic Wear: Strong and Sexy

If fitness is a big part of your life, why not incorporate that into your boudoir session? Athletic wear like sports bras, leggings, or workout tanks can highlight your strength and confidence, creating a look that’s both sexy and empowering.

Accessories to Complete the Look

No matter what you wear to your boudoir session, accessories can elevate your look. Whether it’s a chunky necklace, a pair of earrings, or a wide-brimmed hat, accessories can add a touch of personality and make your outfit feel complete.

Remember that the key to a successful boudoir photoshoot is feeling comfortable and confident in what you’re wearing. Choose clothing that makes you feel beautiful and reflects your personal style and sensuality. We discuss your options during your styling and design consultation, this is where the co-creation process really comes into play. We discuss colors, textures, and styles that resonate with their personality and make them feel comfortable and confident.

Often, clients bring along sentimental items like jewelry, heirlooms, or accessories that hold personal significance. These cherished pieces can add a layer of depth and intimacy to the photos, and I love helping clients incorporate them into their shoot.

If you’re wanting to mix and match these non traditional ideas with some lingerie, here’s a post about lingerie outfits for your boudoir session