Boudoir isn’t one-size-fits-all—and your outfits shouldn’t be either. One of the most powerful parts of a boudoir session is showing up as you, in all your beautiful, messy, magnetic authenticity. Whether you’re bold and edgy or soft and romantic, there’s a style that will help you feel confident, sexy, and deeply you.
Here are a few personality-based outfit ideas to inspire your perfect boudoir vibe
The Romantic Dreamer
You’re soft, sentimental, and maybe a little vintage at heart.
What to wear:
- Soft lace robes in blush or cream
- Sheer tulle skirts or off-the-shoulder tops
- Delicate lingerie in muted pastels
- Flowing fabrics that feel ethereal
Accessories that work: Pearls, soft waves, floral hairpieces
The Bold & Fearless
You’re confident, expressive, and not afraid to turn heads.
What to wear:
- Strappy bodysuits or open-back pieces
- Leather or faux leather lingerie
- High heels, fishnets, bold red lipstick
- Statement jewelry or body chains
Bonus: Add a leather jacket for a power pose moment
The Edgy Minimalist
You’re sleek, modern, and love clean lines and strong silhouettes.
What to wear:
- Black-on-black bodysuits or high-cut one-pieces
- Structured bras with mesh or cutouts
- Oversized button-down shirt or blazer (your own or your partner’s)
- Slick hair or dramatic eyeliner
The Glam Goddess
You love luxury, shine, and bringing the drama—in the best way.
What to wear:
- Satin robes, corsets, or jewel-toned lingerie
- Sequin or velvet details
- Statement heels, lashes, and glowing skin
- Old Hollywood waves or bold accessories
The Cozy Cutie
You’re playful, sweet, and all about feeling comfy and cute.
What to wear:
- Slouchy sweaters or crop tops with cheeky undies
- Knee-high socks or cozy cardigans
- Jersey fabric sets or a borrowed tee
- Natural makeup, messy bun, fresh-faced glow
Still not sure where you fit?
That’s totally normal. Most of my clients are a beautiful blend of more than one vibe. During your pre-shoot consult, I’ll help you narrow it down based on your personality, goals, and what feels amazing on your body.
And remember—boudoir isn’t about dressing like someone else. It’s about revealing the version of you that you’re becoming… your Highest Self. Let’s celebrate her.
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